Empower yourself by figuring out your core values

What are your values in life? Ranked 1 through 5.

1 Security

2 Safety

3 Order 

4 Harmony
5 Love

I hate ambiguous situations.  I sometimes have an irrational fear that I have done something wrong.  I thrive in environments where I feel comfortable and valued.


Determine how many of the values you came up with are ones you can actually provide in a relationship.


I can provide all of these feelings yet I often don't.  I feel that I am so wrapped up in my own feelings that I really take the time to make the other person feel safe and secure.  I usually want the other person to show their love before I show anything.